One of the biggest reason marriages end in divorce is because couples fail to ask the big questions before they walk down the aisle.

If couples simply spent some time asking each other the questions that really matter, they'd greatly increase their chances of staying together and faithfulness.

Did you know that men are more likely to cheat than women?
However, as women become more financially independent, they tend to act more like men with respect to infidelity.

It is possible to have feelings for two or more persons but through practice, it is deficult to do. "Office Romances" are becoming more and more common, spouses often spend more time with coworkers than with each other. Technology also plays an important role in infidelity; the internet, chat rooms, e-mails, etc, are making it easier for people to engage in infidelity.

Infidelity is not always detectable. At the start of an affair most people are impressed with their own behaviour, because infidelity is driven by emotions and circumstances, is not always planned.

Being Faithful is not impossible but difficult, keep an eye on your partner if you feel doubtful.

Here are some sites that can help you catch your partner:

* How to Catch a Cheating Spouse (husband/wife)
* How to Catch Your Cheating Lover
* Cheat Sweeper, Catches Cheating Spouses
* The Anatomy of an Affair (by Dr Reena Sommer, Ph.D.)

Marriage Counseling is perfect for those couples who wants to open lines of communication between them. You can get a better understanding, of someone outside the relationship, of what has went wrong in your marriage so you can have a string marriage again.

Therapists are trained to guide you, understand family problems and issues, make you reach your own conclusions and discover underlying problems. They wont make you feel guilty or blame at any point, and if they do so, you can say she or he is not a good therapist. Whit their help you should work through your problems and get over bad feelings.

Mostly, marriage counseling is conducted with both partners present. However, sometimes and depending on the couple problems, there can be individual sessions. The therapist begins analizing the marriage and its problems, and depending on the method used, he or she make a plan or strategy with all the information gathered, it is an interesting job because you never make the same plan, you can have similar plans but they vary from couple to couple.

Communication and working together are the best weapons you can use to save your marriage. But sometimes when your partner does not want to go to therapy with you, what can you do? do you have an answer to that? can you go to therapy alone?

* Retrieve a Lover
* Magic of Makingup
* Questions for Couples